EUTHANASIA

yesterday night  somewhere around 12:15 am i was gettng too bored...so i thought  y nt see a movie......n den a dvd of film guzaarish caught my eye... although i was bit skeptical abt the movie...n thought that movie session wont last more dan 30 min ....bt to my surprise it was a real gem.....

i wasnt  big fan of black..... nor did i ever understand the works of sajay leela bansali...bt dis one i would call was nt just a masterpiece by him...bt also the most meaningful movie ever made in bollywood's history.....

n i should say that for the first time...i didnt found any " desipan"  in a bollywood movie...kudos to SLB for dat....

EUTHANASIA or more commonly known as mercy killing...is the main idea of the film..... bt wat  makes it different is the request of euthanasia by a quadriplegic himself....... what i loved was that it wasnt about the depression faced by quadriplegic....and the feeling of  ohh i cant run and play..... bt it reflected the frustation of and the suffocation of nt being capable of dng the most basic thngs in life..... 

yes thats  wat makes it stand out.....  there is one scene  which shows a fly constantly irritating the actor.....n the protagonist can't get it off his nose..nd ultimatley settles down deriving pleasure in that irritation..... well while it may sound just an incident...bt thats  a small incident sayng it all...........

another thng that  touched me was ......a night seen  wen the protagonist was sleepng.....and  then his cieling begins to leak....... he calls for help bt evryone was in sound sleep...n he lay dere all night  drenchng drop by drop in cold water... .. dere just one more incident  when a very carng nusrse nd a lover is beaten up in frnt of him...n he cudnt  move a limb...al he had was pain in eyes..... and painfull plea in his words........ dats what film is abt.......dats wat  is being conveyed by the film......the unability to do the most basic thngs in life.....thats what  brings in the feeing of being  handicap in a very strong way to us.....dats the suffering  the protagonist pleas to gets rid off....it nt abt nt being able to enjoy life.....its abt nt being able  to be independent........ nt being able to protect a loved one from violence...nt being  able  to even scratch ur nose........ dats  why  it is called mercy killing.......which says to world....please  shown me some mercy...please kill me......... please end my suffering and suffocation......... please release me from a life long imprisonment of dis quadriplegic body.......... please kil me....................

so i ask evryone out there  and the jurisdiction system.....dat wen we hav right to giv capital punishment to someone who brought sufferings to oder's life....... den y cant we end  some's suffering  by granting  him permission of his own death...... do we hav right  to make some1's life hell?....n do we hav right of controlling som1 else's life?........thnk abt it......

DO IT "DESI"!!

india... full of colors.... where peple hav versatile tastes....versatile choices.......different trends...different sense of style...bt wats in common? well dats the "desipan"  (indianness).... yes where ever we go...watever we wear....  whichever cusine we try..... anythng we speak...... evrythng has a "tadka" of our "desi"  style.
hmmm its nt dat we hate authenticity or we dnt wanna incorporate lifestyles from all over the world...bt as much as we love adapting new thngs....we also love mending them to suit our indian style and sensibility. just imagine lets say  a  chinese cuisine, mouth waterng  isnt it? bt wat actually comes into our mind wen we  thnk of it is  our punjabi style spicy chinese.... n hwsoever  ppl may deny it...bt deep down  wat our taste buds relish is the spicy indianised chinese loaded with sauces...... well chinese cuisine  is just example...hav a look at  pizza hut..... which wen launched  had only classical pizzas...which acc to us  was  blan.....n we indians  refused to hav such "tasteless" pizza...... so the outcome is that...now wen u goto  pizza hut  there  is all "teekha paneer tikka pizza" , "tandoori chicken pizza" n many more...even our  KFC has launcehd  all new  hot chicken wings...considering indian taste buds in mynd..........
 bt our " desipan" is nt limited to food only......well we all love shoppng and  wen it comes to cloths hands  down to it no1 can beat us..... while we all like western clothes......bt still we fynd  the colors  n the cuts  bit borng and basic.... so our designers put their efforts in creatng wat we call is indianised fusion clothng..... even recent fashion week displayed  indian block printing and bandhni tie n die technique inculcated into western wear quite intrestngly..... and with some bling to it..... coz  we all know...we love bling!
talkng abt bling.....the first thng dat pops into my mind is indian weddng......welll on dis  even critics  wud agree that indian marriages r none less than a grand pompous award funtions.......  we dnt like simple weddings.....we hav loud music..... loud colors..... over the top bling!  n almost evrythng u can imagine....... while on one side of world...dere is simple marriage  at church with simple clothng....here on oder hand we like to  hav a larger than life affair....with all glittery bride..... nd even more colourfull guests...... n so on ...... i can keep on writing  abt it...bt it wnt end....so such is our sensiblity......... n if all dis  was not  enough  we hav our very own desi version of hollywood n yes u guessed it  its  bollywood......
hmmmm so movies  r like bestest tym pass.....n movie stars  are like our role model....n we can't imagine an indian movie without  a song....... n if its item number den it just gets  even better..... i mean who cares  whether "tees maar khan or dabbang"    did well at box ofice or nt...as long as "munni and shiela"   item numbers r dere we dnt care....its nt dat we dnt like movie  with meaningful content...bt we want out share of desi entertaimnment  in dat too.............well n lastly the biggest example of our desi modification is our hinglish..... yes we like english we want to fluant english bt ofcoarse  nt without a twist.... we want out national language hindi to b part of dis english too...so wat we hear today are words like...."pataofyng"(impressing)... bhunofyng(roastng) n many more...so such are we indian........ so it proves  dat in the nd  we all are indians at heart and it wnt b wrong in sayng dat ..wen u got to do it...do it desi......

genZ...... do it ur way!!!!: corruption at its best!!!

genZ...... do it ur way!!!!: corruption at its best!!!: "inflation and corruption...seems to b quite familiar words to us nowadays....... evryday we hear of rising food prices......."

corruption at its best!!!

inflation and corruption...seems  to b quite  familiar words to us nowadays....... evryday we hear of  rising food prices...... scams and  scandals......sometimes  bank fools  ppl and  sometimes ppl fool bank........and  if dats nt  enugh sometimes  both tend to fool each oder...yes such is our new millenium....full of scams.....where on side the govt is busy gatterng its  scatterred pieces  prestige which is  ruthfully punctured  by scams......and on the oder  side dere r brainstormers who are fynding  their ways  out  to completely wipe off the indian capital......and to support this  what oder possible example can it b besides  the recent $500 billion indian  black money scam.....

yes  shocking  bt true.....such is life...where on  one side  the poor and middle  class is  dealing with  petty issues of inflation and corruption ..the oder side has mangnanimous report unleashed in which a former swiss bank employee revealed 50 indian names holding accounts bearng tax evaded money to govt of india....clearly dis  much money would  hav been sufficient  to tackle  all indian economy problem...if of coarse it wud  hav actuaaly been utilised in way its meant to b ....( coz  we know  even if govt has money .....it still dsnt reach ppl ) anyway so such is the level of conspiracy  gng on dese days.....n we say that  we havnt progressed?....well the above news shows that  we hav  definately progressed way beyond imagination as far as scams r concerned..... anyway  cumng back to recent  biggest scam.....a petetions has been filed to reveal names to public..bt as expected  our  lazy worthless govt has issues  with that too......

bt nt evryone is so lazy....the news has brought all countries into actions...with pressure being imposed on banks all overall world to sign agreement  of tax sharing info...n yes swiss bank rank first coz  of it rigidness to share info. now  since  all countries  hav been alarmed and  now checks  r being made....... our scam masterminds started  brainstorming again.....  n how is dat? 

well dats  bt bringing the black money back to bombay stock market....since  there  is  no norm of findin the original foreing  investors... all that swiss money has  started  coming  back and stock market has  risen remarkbly......hmmmmmm so  now  this  gives  yet another nightmare to our lethargic govt...that not only they hav to bringback the money and  look into scam...dey hav yet another task of stopping the inflow of money into stock market....... now what r v left wid is  wait and watch who wins.....

bt watevr might b the result....one thng is sure....dis  decade  has faced  corruption at its  best!!!!

genZ...... do it ur way!!!!: go for kill!!

genZ...... do it ur way!!!!: go for kill!!: "many a times...we might hav faced failure...sometimes we didnt put in enugh efforts...n sometimes our enough hard work was..."

genZ...... do it ur way!!!!: go for kill!!

genZ...... do it ur way!!!!: go for kill!!: "many a times...we might hav faced failure...sometimes we didnt put in enugh efforts...n sometimes our enough hard work was..."

go for kill!!

many a times...we might hav faced  failure...sometimes  we didnt put in enugh efforts...n sometimes our enough hard work  wasnt that enough......while the failed event is survivable...n for a matter of fact  failures  are  also bearable...bt what is  actually unbearable is being accussed of dat failure. yes havnt u ever given a thought  as to y we r afraid of nt winning?
ans1- it means end of world....naaa we know we know  dere is more to come
ans2- we cant achieve it ever........ no again hard work will one day definately tak us dere....

well the real ans is being accused of that failure......yes facng  ppl ..... n being accused of  nt making it....fear of "ohh what they will thnk of me " is the root  coz of y v r so afraid of failure. thnk of playng  cricket....losng match wont hurt as much as the "u such a loser" look by others will...... ya dere r times  wen ur near n dear ones  try to console u ...bt deep down v all hav fear  that one day or oder..... dey will accusse u of  thng  that wasnt  intentional ( i mean  no1 loves to b a loserfaterall)..... one day  they all tend to forget ur efforts, as for world it dsnt  count hw hard  u tried...what matters  is  r u in league or nt...r u winner or nt ( yeah  jo jita  wohi sicunder is actually true to world)...... n after that accusitions  what u r left wid is ... a still more shattered self.... n all dose  consolation seems  to fade out in just few seconds....  so wen we all know  dat dis has to happen...n wen we know  the tables  do turn up at some point of time..... that the accuser  will himself b an accussed  someday, the pointers  will themselves  will b pointed at someday and that after sometime  we all lie  in same plane....so should we  actually worry abt wat oders say?  should  we actually spend sleepless night thnkng  abt  what crime  hav i done  by losing?  should  we really bother abt being acussed by someone  who dsnt know  wat future has in store  for him /her? i dnt thnk so .. so get that fear  out  of urself...look ahaed.... the accussers dnt know  that failure  is  ladder to success....its  makes us aware of wat we lack  n helps  us  overcome our  flaws.....n as we know it.....charm of success is to rise  frm failure...... so go rise...go hav ur own rise of atlantis for the world  to see  and  only envy u........go for the kill......

*confessions- b4 writing this blog  i used to held  myself guilty  bt nt anymore... ;)

genZ...... do it ur way!!!!: go scrabble!!

genZ...... do it ur way!!!!: go scrabble!!: "well remember there were times when we used to gather all together...nd played LUDO, snakes and ladder and scrabble all day long......with z..."

go scrabble!!

well remember there were times when we used to gather all together...nd played LUDO, snakes and ladder and scrabble all day long......with zing  as to who wins first ,,,,, or who reachs  finishng line first evn if it requires killing oppnent( i mean nt literally) bt den  came a storm of XBOX.. n PSPs.... which almost wiped  out these games of our life  just like...the million yrs ago..a comet wiped  out dinasaurs....well ocoarse  we cant bring back the dinasaurs...... bt the recent TVC by old school films productions...hav definitely brought about the genesis of  old  times SCRABBLE.  ofcoarse while many of us  in fraction of.  seconds  wud  get turned off by the name...bt the advertisement has managed to bring abt fun element and the smart quotient associated  with game.....

ofcoarse  al techno freaks wud strongly call it borng....n dat   the poor board game  stands now where as far as the 3d elemnt, graphics n virtual reality is concerned..... bt i wud  like to put forward a question to all of dem dat  what does  we get out of dat adrenaline rush racing games? wel i'll giv u the answer of  what exactly we  learn from them.... what we learn  is  violence...... social isolation...the loss of sensibility to distinguish b/w fantacy and reality ( i mean we  all know suicidal cases post shaktiman ) and ofcoarse landing  up being couch potatoe......hey hey hey ...b4  my opponents  gets  provoked.... i know  there is  smart technicals and multitaskng  associated  with dem ...... bt  luk at our scrabble....as the recent ad portrays it. where two identical twins  make an excuse for  being late...while  one gets  punishment  the oder manages  to fool trainer  by his word " clinomania" difficult word with simple meaning.... 

so what i m actually sayng here?  hmm the answer is  smart kids  play scrabble..... if  u r nt smart...u tend  to get smart while playng the game as it requires high level of brainstorming....n it also increases ur vocab, n ofcoarse its always fun to dodge ppl with ur IQ n hav ur way out, altleast i feel that it  is  cool. n i can say so becoz  we all know importance of vocab in todays  world n if  a game can give us fun way out to get familier with new  thngs...i thnk its  worth it..... n yes  ofcoarse since  its  in grp we get to b social...n also prove  ourselves to b  superior  to other through our  knowledge............

so for all u guys out dere...go scrabble!!

genZ...... do it ur way!!!!: whats dere in "PINK"

genZ...... do it ur way!!!!: whats dere in "PINK": "i recently visited ambience mall...well wen i just got dere in my all casual dressing.... i realised that malls &nbs..."

whats dere in "PINK"

i recently visited  ambience mall...well wen i just got  dere in my all casual  dressing.... i realised  that malls  r none less than a a fashion platform, where evryone pretends  to b starlet( i mean  the" i own world attitude"). what i saw was evryone from a litle girl ...to a teenager...to matured lady...all were wrapped up in deir  prada fur coats , with gucci bag hanging on deir shoulders...n like all smoky eyes( to me its the  eyes  were  as if all dipped in kajal) no offence  to these  tat bit overdressed lasses....i mean  obviouly if u got it  ..fluant it.... ( here  i mean flaunting  their couture collection)  bt den stil there  was  monotone in colours...where  evryone were in deir  blacks n blues...until ofcoarse i saw a pink iguana standing out distictively in the crowd.....bt wen i actually got closer.. what i see is an all pink lass...... hey m nt exhaggerarting..thngs....but really dat girl was all pink...... from her flashy glitery pink dress, to pink gloss , to pink eye shadows, pink blush , pink hand bag, pink stole, nd if that was not enugh ... pink stelletoes...... i mean  wat was she  upto? (singing bebo main bebo") well not that her fashion quotient was  big disaster bt it seems  she  didnt even had senibilities of season wear... hmmm bt anyway  after my shocking  pink overdose....i landed into thnkng  wats in colour pink? n how much pink is pink enugh.........earlier dere  were days  where  grls  with pink lips,,,,, n pink cheeks...were  such a temptation to guys.....bt seems  that temptations  has  changed to obsession......so grls  leave no stone  unturned.......while that pink was  a natural pink...now we hav ofcoarse all macs  n lancome pink cheek tints for  all grls  who say "ohh i hav got that too"...  agreed  pink is a colour of feminism..... bt isnt that obsession really bringin that color in the dock! isnt it the reason y we typecasted men wearng pink as metrosexual n ocoarse genesis of term "pink collared job"  even type cast even work as women's work...just becoz of obsessive feminism associated to it...wen actually its just a color...i mean hello...dats insane ....y shud we typecast pink..... n y is dere such asn obsession with pink...isnt pink health n pink glow enugh...dat we hav to get into all pink mania....... just give a thought.....n lets  just take it as colour  n nt just a gynandric  color......thnk about it.......

ciao

new age single

well hey ...hi to all..for all dose who don't know me...i am smridhi...n yes  its nt samridhi , nor simridhi or smidhi ( well i hav to say it like dat coz ppl cant actually pronounce it) n if its  nt simple enugh...lets hust keep it to sim..:)
hmm well taking abt myself..i cum from engineering background...final sem , ..... bt as many of engineers  wud agree with me  life  sumtyms  gets boring n monotnous...while being occupied in all technostuff...n exams......so i found out a way out...to connect to ppl and share  my views....as my frnds call me loquacious.....i thought of takng his charecteristic of mine into somethng gud...n hence  here  i m ...landed to bloggng stuf.....

well my   title  wud  hav given u the idea...dat i m single( n those  who didnt got dat..well never mynd....i 'll help to brush up ur commmon sense...lols!).....  dis  blog  is  all abt fun n experiences  and life  of singlehood...and ofcoarse  the nt so gud  thng  of singlehood.....  hey  bt b4 u make up preconcieve notions  it isnt all abt drama  n stuff..its  abt new age thnkng , the new age sensibilities.... lifestyle  and prefereces...n  wat today's new age  youth is all abt .....
n ofcoarse all suggestions....ideas.... r welcumed.....

n if thats  nt enugh.... u can expect advice from me too....as to hw to dump ur bf /or gf.... n stuff.....lols!!  hey its a free world  u know.......  so yap  lookng forward  to all.....
ciao  hav fun